two nights ago this was the 7:30 conversation.
cade: can we have a dance party?
me: ok, but only 3 songs because you have to go to bed soon.
cora: i'll be right back.
cade and i choose songs.
cora appears, like this...

rob laughs.
i try not to cry and wonder where i went wrong.
then i realize the fact that my four year old owns fish net tights may have something to do with it.
cade says: i'll be right back.
he returns like this...

rob laughs.
i try not to cry again when i realize that my son evidently thinks "gangsta" is cool.
for that i cannot be held responsible.
i blame justin bieber.
but i guess i missed the video where bieber goes gangsta.
i do not foresee an 8:00 bed time now that we are changed out of pajamas into costumes for a 3 song dance party.
stress or embrace?
those are my options.
we embraced it and danced!!!